it ok to not be ready

Please spread this shit like wildfire. People go on and sit through the whole experience and they’re uncomfortable because they just want to please their partner and they don’t tell them that they want to stop because they are not ready. It’s okay not to be ready. 

Even if it’s not your first time. I still get like this sometimes when I’ve had one of those days. There’s nothing wrong with that, even if you’ve been together for years and years and years it’s okay to not be comfortable 100% of the time.